Perempuan merokok ... Salah ke??

Selamat pagi uols ... 

Semalam I had a conversation with a friend pasal perempuan merokok .... 
No matter how hot the girl is, he will turned off once she lit a cigarette ... 
As if all the good things in that girl gone, just because she is a smoker... 

Em... 
At first I thought it's another gender bias "discussion". As usual, I'll back up la kaum sejenis (even im not a smoker pun). I asked him, why men smoke and still consider as a good person, while when a  girl smoke, automatically she is bad, ?! Maybe when you look at the girl smoking, first thing that comes in your mind is : perempuan liar ni... 
For me it's not fair to judge a person based on the exterior. 
I met few acquaintances who happen to be a smoker (pompuan) and they are very decent people. They smoke for the same reason as why men smoke... Sebab nak release stress.. They are not perempuan liar yang duk clubbing all the time . They are professional people. 
Kalu tengok kat negara omputeh, bersepah je pompuan merokok... And I believe tuk nenek kita dulu pun selambe je gentel tembakau masuk dlm rokok daun.... 

So i da berhujah panjang and baru tanya his opinion. His answer was simple (and "selamat") : because women has a womb. It's really important to take care your womb as that would be the "place" where your child will absorb everything for the first time. If she is a smoker, all of the toxin and hazardous materials will compromise it. 

Well, i was impressed  (^__^). I kinda agreed with him but to conceive , it's not 1 sided thing. Men also play a big role to ensure his "troops" are healthy.
So, no smoking rules are for men too. 

Maybe that's the reason why I find a non smoker is sexier than the normal average smoking guy *lol* 

Honestly, you don't have to be a smoker to look cool or "manly".. You just need to be you & people will notice it. 
And for girls, for whatever reasons are, smoking is like falling in love with a bad guy . It bring no benefit to you.... 

But smoker or not ... That will never be a point for me to define you. What matter is what inside you... And how you treat people surround you. 

Just my 2cents opinion :) 
shakira sulong 



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