Stereotype

Hello readers...
Miss me? Miss me?? I miss you!!! 

Sorry for being invincible... Bz sangat la lately... Busy with works & some personal stuff ....
well, everything is over for me... 
*sigh*

 Ya ampun, this blog da berkulat kulat.
draft da berjela jela.. semua takat 5 patah perkataan je -..-
*sapu sapu* *lap lap* *gosok gosok*

ok, done with cleaning ,
nak citer sikit pasal stereotype
nanti ada yang tanya, stereotype tu apa?? adik beradik sellotape ke??
paleotok mung!

Stereotype is thought that can be adopted about specific types of individuals or certain ways of doing things.
or senang citer, perkara kebiasaan pada kita. & benda tu xsemestinye betul tapi sebab da biasa, semua orang sebulat suara menerima & bila ada sape2 yang keluar dari "kebiasaan" tu dianggap pelik or ganjil or tak geng -.-

actually iols paling menyampah dengan sterotype2 mengarut ni. 
contoh :
pink hanya untuk perempuan. 
biru or kaler gelap lain untuk lelaki 
bila lelaki pakai baju pink.. mula la suara sumbang " eh eh, gay lattew" or " em lelaki lembut je pakai pink". 
wadehek people!! 

 channing tattum pakai pink herlok je iols tegok.. sedikit pun xde tergugat kejantanan beliau. And colors never associate with sexuality orientation la...
mana aci nak kata orang tu straight or not straight based on color they choose.

another thing is meng-stereotype-kan gender 
this one iols really cannot tahan

contoh stereotype yang too obvious yang patut kena hapuskan :

" perempuan xleh nak panjat panjat sangat, da macam jantan"
" lelaki kena lah kasar sikit, baru tak macam pompuan sangat" 
"kau jangan lembik sangat macam perempuan lah!"

 HEY!! 

 kenape bila benda benda lemah je nak associate-kan dengan perempuan.
kamon people!! 
this is 21st centuries babeh, we have equality in gender 
woman are not weak anymore! and its norm for a guy to be a fully house-husband (and not called weak!)

because things are different from 20 or 30 years ago. 

 tengok je lepasan U sekarang.. mana lagi ramai?? lelaki or perempuan?? actually bilangan sebenar hampir sama. 
in the corporate world, berlambak pompuan yang manage to be at the highest position in many huge company. 
perempuan lembik is so lame!
in fact,  perempuan ada di tempat yang tinggi dalam Islam

 Hello, 
Syurga bawah tapak kaki ibu. and kebetulan IBU ADALAH PEREMPUAN... 
tak ke tinggi darjat seorang wanita? 
Wanita yang bertarung nyawa semasa melahirkan anak, Allah da tempah satu syurga untuk dia. hah, hebat tak wanita?? 

Still nak kata wanita lembik?? 

ok, iols bole terima kalu jejantan yang kuat mengutuk kaum wanita. 
but paling tak boleh blah bila kita kaum wanita sendiri seolah "redha" je ngan stereotype yang diberi..
takpe la lemah pun... takpe la tak belajar tnggi pun... takpela itu... takpelah ini

 kamon.. you have a bigger mission in life woman!! 
bukan sekadar pemuas nafsu lelaki saje. --_--

 we have all rights to be heard
we have all rights to be loved 
we have all rights to learn
we have all rights to improve our self to become a better person 
we have all rights to be whatever you want to be ( pilot ke, ahli bomba ke ect ect)
we have all right to do things that we enjoy doing 
As long as we know how much is too much :) 

 stop stereotype us woman as 
lembik
lemah 
cepat sentap 
emotional 
tak boleh buat kerja lelaki 
cant do this 
cant do that 

And stop stereotyping men too !!

sebab ini semua tidak adil!! 
*tangan hentak meja* 

stop it people!
Each and every one of us have strong & weak point. This is normally bulan gender related. Ramai budak2 xleh nk Persue apa yg diorg suka sbb stereotype.
Like nursing Is for female & engineering is for male
Ini patut dihabiskan. Gender bias is not healthy... It's too much

So please la beb
Stop bole? 

Honestly , Iols pun xtau apa iols mengarut.. Tp this is what been playing inside my mind over and over ... 

Satu entry yang terlompat lompat 

Shakira  
 





 

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